{"id":293,"date":"2011-07-05T15:11:49","date_gmt":"2011-07-05T20:11:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/?p=293"},"modified":"2011-07-05T15:11:49","modified_gmt":"2011-07-05T20:11:49","slug":"absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder-for-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/2011\/07\/absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder-for-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder (for Work)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>I opened my inbox today to a message from our online backup provider. It seems they miss me.<\/strong>\u00a0My laptop was turned\u00a0off over the extended Independence Day weekend so it wasn&#8217;t backing up.\u00a0 They were concerned.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m so glad to be missed!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don&#8217;t say that because I feel unappreciated!<\/strong>\u00a0Rather, traditionally it&#8217;s been rare for me to be\u00a0offline that long. Whether on family vacations or extended trips when giving keynotes overseas, it&#8217;s pretty normal for me to have laptop in tow and to be online daily.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Which is a problem I&#8217;m working on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There really is something to the phrase that <em>absence makes the heart grow fonder<\/em>. Time away&#8211;getting a break&#8211;can help us be so much more productive when we return. Tony Schwartz from The Energy Project is a clear voice on this topic, which we discussed in a two-part episode of our People and Projects Podcast (see\u00a0<a title=\"project management podcast\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/TS-1\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/bit.ly\/TS-1<\/a>\u00a0 and <a title=\"project mgt podcast\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/TS-2\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/bit.ly\/TS-2<\/a>). \u00a0 Tony&#8217;s concept of <em>pulsing<\/em> has been enormously helpful for me and my coaching clients this last year.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For me, I&#8217;m working on not having to be shackled to my laptop as often as I have been in the past<\/strong>. For some of us, it might be taking a step away from the desk and take a lunch more often. To be more plugged in and focused, it might just mean we need to unplug more than we do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m working on Tony&#8217;s suggestion to timebox activities to 90 minutes or less<\/strong>. I even use that concept in our workshops&#8211;making sure we never go more than 90 minutes without a break.<\/p>\n<p><strong>So with this in mind, here&#8217;s my challenge as we head into the second half of this year<\/strong>: Look for ways to step away. Look to do more pulsing instead of pushing. Then watch for how that time away pays off with more focused productivity.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. For additional skills on\u00a0managing your time and\u00a0 productivity, check out our e-learning module entitled <a href=\"http:\/\/www.i-leadonline.com\/eGetMoreDoneWithLessStress.asp\" target=\"_blank\">5 Keys to Getting More Done with Less Stress<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I opened my inbox today to a message from our online backup provider. It seems they miss me.\u00a0My laptop was turned\u00a0off over the extended Independence Day weekend so it wasn&#8217;t backing up.\u00a0 They were concerned. I&#8217;m so glad to be missed! I don&#8217;t say that because I feel unappreciated!\u00a0Rather, traditionally it&#8217;s been rare for me&#8230; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/2011\/07\/absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder-for-work\/#more-293\">Continue Reading &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[75,128,109,125,91,88,111],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p488Wj-4J","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/293"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=293"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/293\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/293\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}