{"id":15,"date":"2004-03-30T17:45:00","date_gmt":"2004-03-30T22:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/?p=15"},"modified":"2004-03-30T17:45:00","modified_gmt":"2004-03-30T22:45:00","slug":"a-day-to-remember","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/2004\/03\/a-day-to-remember\/","title":{"rendered":"A Day to Remember"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are just some days you&#8217;ll never forget.  Do you have some of those?<\/p>\n<p>For me, March 30 is one of them.  Since it&#8217;s my wife&#8217;s birthday it&#8217;s a good thing I don&#8217;t forget about it!  She&#8217;s not excited about this particular birthday so I&#8217;ve had my work cut out for today! \ud83d\ude42  I&#8217;m up to that challenge!<\/p>\n<p>Yet beyond the birth date of the woman of my dreams, March 30 also has two additional important memories for me, separated by a decade.<\/p>\n<p>On this day in 1994 I delivered my first real public presentation.  It was to an audience of 7,500 tech heads at a Microsoft conference in New Orleans.  I was a mess.  The presentation went great, as it turns out, but I was truly a wreck!  You see in 1994 giving a presentation to a group of only 10 people was enough to keep me awake at night.  Imagine 7,500.  I could hardly eat or sleep for a week!  You see, public speaking was one of my biggest fears.  Amazingly (and ironically) only a decade later I do it for a living, loving every minute of it!<\/p>\n<p>Is that possible?  Can you imagine making a living a decade from now from the thing you fear most today?  What would that be for you (post a comment below)?  All I can tell you is that it can happen and the journey can be one of the greatest career adventures ever.<\/p>\n<p>The other memory is less uplifting but important nonetheless.  Dinah Kay Bussell passed away today after a hard fought battle with cancer that prematurely ended her life at the age of 29.  Dinah is the wife of a dear colleauge of mine, Rob Bussell, with whom I collaborate at an excellent I.T. training organization in Chicago named Omicron.  Rob is a gifted facilitator\/teacher by profession but a remarkable husband and father at heart&#8211;a truly special person.  Though I only knew Dinah from afar, her influence reaches to countless numbers of people who were blessed to have been part of her life.  <\/p>\n<p>The March 30 lessons for leaders: Make today memorable.  Remember where you&#8217;ve come from.  Blast through your fears.  Life is short.  <\/p>\n<p>How can you make today memorable?  What are you waiting for to start blasting through the things that you fear rather than be held hostage by them?  Though Dinah&#8217;s story reminds us there&#8217;s no guarantee of tomorrow, may you make a memory today that will make this a special day for you in the future for years to come.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are just some days you&#8217;ll never forget. Do you have some of those? For me, March 30 is one of them. Since it&#8217;s my wife&#8217;s birthday it&#8217;s a good thing I don&#8217;t forget about it! She&#8217;s not excited about this particular birthday so I&#8217;ve had my work cut out for today! \ud83d\ude42 I&#8217;m up&#8230; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/2004\/03\/a-day-to-remember\/#more-15\">Continue Reading &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p488Wj-f","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.leadershipintherealworldblog.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}